Showing posts with label Tears. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tears. Show all posts

Monday, March 15, 2021

WHEN MUSIC MAKES YOU CRY - What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music? - Many types of music can move people to tears; blubbering in the balcony is iconic in opera. The phenomenon of crying sparked by music is an interesting, but little-studied behavior. Whether music does or does not make you feel like crying reveals something about your fundamental personality, and the particular shade of emotion gripping you as you feel choked up is different for different personality types. Evoking emotion is the main point of music, after all, so perhaps we shouldn’t be too surprised that songs can put a lump in our throats. Music can calm or excite; it can motivate, uniting worshipers in peace and devotion, or driving people into battle with the sound of drum and bugle. Crying is a complex human behavior that can accompany a variety of intense experiences. It can be provoked by grief, as at a funeral, but also by extreme happiness, as at a wedding. But helplessness, gratitude, and other subtle emotions can also provoke tears. What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music? The researchers surveyed 892 adults to determine how many had experienced feeling like crying while hearing music, and what emotion they were feeling at that moment. The first finding is that being moved to tears by music is not unusual; 89.8 percent of the people in the study reported that they had experienced feeling like crying by hearing music.

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When Music Makes You Cry

What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music?

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Evoking emotion is the main point of music, after all, so perhaps we shouldn’t be too surprised that songs can put a lump in our throats. Music can calm or excite; it can motivate, uniting worshipers in peace and devotion, or driving people into battle with the sound of drum and bugle.

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Crying is a complex human behavior that can accompany a variety of intense experiences. It can be provoked by grief, as at a funeral, but also by extreme happiness, as at a wedding. But helplessness, gratitude, and other subtle emotions can also provoke tears. 

R. Douglas Fields Ph.D.

The New Brain

Reviewed by Ekua Hagan

 

Ever find yourself moved to tears by music? Eva Cassidy’s "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" does it for me. How about you?

Many types of music can move people to tears; blubbering in the balcony is iconic in opera. The phenomenon of crying sparked by music is an interesting, but little-studied behavior. 

According to a new study, whether music does or does not make you feel like crying reveals something about your fundamental personality, and the particular shade of emotion gripping you as you feel choked up is different for different personality types. 

Researchers Katherine Cotter and Paul Silvia of the University of North Carolina, and Kirill Fayn of the University of Sydney, collaborated on research to investigate the emotions that people experience when music makes them feel like crying. 

Evoking emotion is the main point of music, after all, so perhaps we shouldn’t be too surprised that songs can put a lump in our throats. 

Music can calm or excite; it can motivate, uniting worshipers in peace and devotion, or driving people into battle with the sound of drum and bugle.

Crying is a complex human behavior that can accompany a variety of intense experiences. It can be provoked by grief, as at a funeral, but also by extreme happiness, as at a wedding.

But helplessness, gratitude, and other subtle emotions can also provoke tears. What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music?

The researchers surveyed 892 adults to determine how many had experienced feeling like crying while hearing music, and what emotion they were feeling at that moment. 

The first finding is that being moved to tears by music is not unusual; 89.8 percent of the people in the study reported that they had experienced feeling like crying by hearing music.

The participants were asked to rank their emotional feelings accompanying that response across a spectrum of 16 emotions, including euphoria, happiness, awe, anxiousness, sadness, depression, etc.

The researchers found that people who had been moved to tears by music could be clearly separated into two groups: those who felt sadness, and those who felt awe.

The majority (63 percent) reported feeling sad when music made them cry, and 36.7 percent reported feeling awe.

Is there something about the personalities of people in these two different groups that could explain why these two very different emotional reactions — sadness and awe — provoked tears while listening to music? 

The participants in the study had been given a psychological test to classify them according to five personality attributes — neuroticismextraversionopenness to experienceagreeableness, and conscientiousness

When the researchers sorted the data, they found that people who ranked high on the neuroticism scale experienced sadness when they had been moved to tears by music, and people who scored high in the openness to experience scale felt like crying because the music provoked a profound sense of awe. 

In Eva Cassidy’s performance, the emotion evoked is definitely awe. 

I feel awed by experiencing the extraordinary talent of one person to deliver such a perfect and moving performance — built from nothing other than her beautiful voice and skillful is a live performance, and the tension of sustaining perfection alone in the spotlight magnifies the stakes. 

The song has become a thread-worn children’s jingle from a lifetime of overuse, but here it is transformed and soaring. 

So I guess my reaction puts me among the minority who cry at music because it invokes awe, compared to the two-thirds of people who cry because a song is sad. 

If the correlation with personality traits is correct, I should not rank particularly high on the neuroticism scale (thankfully). But I’m not so sure. 

This thought-provoking study is a good start, but it has some limitations. The experimental group was comprised of college students, which may not adequately reflect the population as a whole. 

Also, 69.6 percent of the participants were female, and the possible effect of gender was not analyzed. 

Another consideration is that in relying upon each person’s recollection of a time in the past when they had felt like crying while listening to music, the study depends on self-reporting to be accurate. 

But in my opinion, there is another complication at work. 

Human emotions are complex. They don’t always fit like pegs into the slots that researchers provide in their experimental designs. 

I remember being moved to tears while hearing Pete Seeger sing "We Shall Overcome," inspiring everyone in the crowd to join in a united chorus of solidarity and determination.

The predominant feeling I had at the time was sadness. 

I was thinking of all the people who had sung that song in the streets of this country over the years in peaceful struggles to overcome racial and social injustice; black-and-white images of the Governor of Alabama blocking the doorway of the university, police dogs, fire hoses blasting protesters off their feet, neighborhoods burning in summer riots, the horrors of a war in Southeast Asia that ripped our country apart and challenged every young man of draft age to confront their own morality and mortality, to distinguish duty from deceit, and decide, betting their life, about a war that was taking the lives of thousands and maiming thousands more — and what for? 

But it was not only sadness that I felt as I listened to Seeger sing. It is possible to experience both sadness and awe simultaneously. 

It is natural to feel powerless and overwhelmed by forces of national and international power. What can one person possibly do? All that Seeger had was a banjo. 

I felt a bittersweet mix of sadness and awe in seeing one man with the courage to stand up against injustice. 

Motivated to try to make the world a better, more peaceful place, to inspire us to be better human beings, and do it with the only thing he had — songs. 

Music is powerful stuff. As a biologist, I see tooth and nail everywhere in nature, because unfortunately, violence is sometimes necessary for survival. 

But amidst current events — such as the hurling of brutal threats to obliterate millions of people with thermonuclear weapons — perhaps what the world needs now is a few less bombs and a few more banjos.

R. Douglas Fields, Ph.D., teaches at the University of Maryland, College Park and is the author of the book Electric Brain.

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-brain/201709/when-music-makes-you-cry


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Thursday, March 11, 2021

JESUS IS THE RESURRECTION AND LIFE - Death is a thief who visits us all eventually and it is always painful; no amount of pious platitudes can wipe the tears away. We see friends and family die - often in the prime of life - leaving holes in our hearts and memories of love lost. Hope that we can change; hope that we can recover our lives even after horrific deaths. To say that Jesus is the resurrection and life is to say that there is hope, not as a magical formula to avoid pain and suffering (Jesus suffered!), but which can allow us to live. Jesus conquered death and offers us a way to slowly see that death is not the end. We do not need to be a slave to death- even as we cannot avoid its sting - but can allow God to transform the pain over time. We do not need to be enslaved to self but through God can once again become free to love and help others. - In John’s Gospel we hear the story of Jesus raising Lazarus, a good friend, who had been dead four days. The story is meant to convey not only the power of Jesus over death but also give the reader a hint of Jesus’ own Resurrection. “I am the resurrection and the life,” Jesus said but what does that mean for us today? It is just some theological data point to memorize along with thousands of other factoids with which to impress friends while playing Jeopardy? How does it relate to real life? With life experience we come increasingly into contact with death, external and internal. We see friends and family die leaving holes in our hearts and memories of love lost.

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Jesus is the Resurrection and Life

Death is a thief who visits us all eventually and it is always painful; no amount of pious platitudes can wipe the tears away 

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We see friends and family die - often in the prime of life - leaving holes in our hearts and memories of love lost. Hope that we can change; hope that we can recover our lives even after horrific deaths. 

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To say that Jesus is the resurrection and life is to say that there is hope, not as a magical formula to avoid pain and suffering (Jesus suffered!), but which can allow us to live. Jesus conquered death and offers us a way to slowly see that death is not the end. 

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We do not need to be a slave to death- even as we cannot avoid its sting - but can allow God to transform the pain over time. We do not need to be enslaved to self but through God can once again become free to love and help others.

Mission Doctors



In John’s Gospel we hear the story of Jesus raising Lazarus, a good friend, who had been dead four days.

The story is meant to convey not only the power of Jesus over death but also give the reader a hint of Jesus’ own Resurrection.

“I am the resurrection and the life,” Jesus said but what does that mean for us today?

It is just some theological data point to memorize along with thousands of other factoids with which to impress friends while playing Jeopardy?

How does it relate to life, real life?

With life experience we come increasingly into contact with death, external and internal.

We see friends and family die - often in the prime of life - leaving holes in our hearts and memories of love lost.

Death is a thief who visits us all eventually and it is always painful; no amount of pious platitudes can wipe the tears away.

There is also death which we see within ourselves when our hearts become insensitive to God and others.

A death which may allow us to keep breathing but slowly saps our lives of meaning, joy and the ability to have compassion for others (or even self!).

Hope that we can change; hope that we can recover our lives even after horrific deaths.

To say that Jesus is the resurrection and life is to say that there is hope, not as a magical formula to avoid pain and suffering (Jesus suffered!), but which can allow us to live.

Christianity, labelled as a religion, is really not about doctrine, ritual, and dogma (though these are important- do not misunderstand me J) but an encounter with Jesus who lives NOW!

Jesus conquered death and offers us a way to slowly see that death is not the end.

If we choose, God’s grace can resurrect joy, compassion and love for family, friends God, and self.

We do not need to be a slave to death- even as we cannot avoid its sting - but can allow God to transform the pain over time.

We do not need to be enslaved to self but through God can once again become free to love and help others.

Mission Doctors deal with death daily and need our support not only in their work but to continue emotionally and spiritually. Please pray for them and support them as you can. God give us peace!

Following Christ’s call to heal the sick, Mission Doctors Association provides lifesaving medical care for the poor and training for local healthcare professionals around the world.

Brother John Kiesler, OFM

https://www.missiondoctors.org/2017/04/04/jesus-is-the-resurrection-and-life/


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Death Is Temporary

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