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Friday, February 12, 2021

IN FLOODWATERS? ASK GOD FOR AN OLIVE LEAF - When the dove returned to Noah in the evening, there in its beak was a freshly plucked olive leaf! Then Noah knew that the water had receded from the earth. That little olive sprig was far more than foliage. It represented hope. It was proof to Noah that God was working and that His purposes would come to pass. Noah’s olive leaf reminds us that the world’s floodwaters do eventually subside. What are the floodwaters surrounding you today? Loneliness? Depression? A limping marriage? Wayward children? Maybe you stare at your bleak horizon and feel like you are destined to float forever in an endless sea of medical, financial, or occupational trouble. Ask God for an olive leaf. It likely won’t be an immediate solution to your situation. However, it will bring immediate encouragement. Olive leaves can come in all sizes and forms: timely phone calls from friends, reassuring Bible promises, encouraging news, unexpected shifts in circumstances. And telling others about how you received an olive leaf often serves as an olive leaf for them! - Noah stared out one of the ark’s windows. Same view as the day before — water in every direction, all the way to the horizon. After the 40-day flood, he and his family had been floating for months in their maritime zoo. They’d battled claustrophobia, seasickness, and stir-craziness. Suddenly, the giant boat scraped to a stop. The waters must be receding!

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In Floodwaters? Ask God for an Olive Leaf

Noah’s olive leaf reminds us that the world’s floodwaters do eventually subside

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When the dove returned to Noah in the evening, there in its beak was a freshly plucked olive leaf! Then Noah knew that the water had receded from the earth. That little olive sprig was far more than foliage. It represented hope. It was proof to Noah that God was working and that His purposes would come to pass. 

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What are the floodwaters surrounding you today? Loneliness? Depression? A limping marriage? Wayward children? Maybe you stare at your bleak horizon and feel like you are destined to float forever in an endless sea of medical, financial, or occupational trouble. Ask God for an olive leaf. It likely won’t be an immediate solution to your situation.  However, it will bring immediate encouragement. 

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Olive leaves can come in all sizes and forms: timely phone calls from friends, reassuring Bible promises, encouraging news, unexpected shifts in circumstances. And telling others about how you received an olive leaf often serves as an olive leaf for them!

Max Lucado



Noah was awakened not by crowing roosters, but by the squawking of those pesky peacocks.

He fed the foul fowl, if for no other reason than to shut them up.

Then he spent a good 20 minutes shoveling out the elephant and rhino stalls.

Lord knows if it weren’t for the vast flood outside the ark, he’d never be able to tolerate the vile smell inside.

He stared out one of the ark’s windows. Same view as the day before — water in every direction, all the way to the horizon.

After the 40-day flood, he and his family had been floating for months in their maritime zoo.

They’d battled claustrophobia, seasickness, and stir-craziness.

Suddenly, the giant boat scraped to a stop. Noah thought to himself, “Solid ground? The waters must be receding!”

Noah waited a few days and then released a dove, but “the dove could find nowhere to perch” (Genesis 8:9) and returned.

A week later, he tried again. “When the dove returned to him in the evening, there in its beak was a freshly plucked olive leaf! Then Noah knew that the water had receded from the earth” (Genesis 8:11).

That little olive sprig was far more than foliage. It represented hope.

It was proof to Noah that God was working and that His purposes would come to pass.

Noah’s olive leaf reminds us that the world’s floodwaters do eventually subside.

What are the floodwaters surrounding you today?

Loneliness?

Depression?

A limping marriage?

Wayward children?

Maybe you stare at your bleak horizon and feel like you are destined to float forever in an endless sea of medical, financial, or occupational trouble.

Ask God for an olive leaf.

It likely won’t be an immediate solution to your situation — it wasn’t for Noah; he still had plenty of days ahead on the ark (see Genesis 8:12–14).

However, it will bring immediate encouragement.

Olive leaves can come in all sizes and forms: timely phone calls from friends, reassuring Bible promises, encouraging news, unexpected shifts in circumstances.

And telling others about how you received an olive leaf often serves as an olive leaf for them!

Devotional from The Lucado Encouraging Word Bible, NIV Edition.

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The Lucado Encouraging Word Bible, NIV Edition offers encouragement in God’s Word with a masterful collection of Max Lucado’s encouraging words curated from his more than forty years of sermons, books, and articles interspersed in Scripture. Learn More >

Some Bible translations focus on the way Scripture was written—the form, grammar, even the word order of the original. The difficulty is that no two languages follow the same set of rules. That’s why translating Scripture is more than a matter of replacing Greek or Hebrew words with English equivalents.

Other Bible translations focus on the meaning of Scripture, helping you grasp the message of the Bible in your own words. The challenge with this approach is that if you stray too far from the form of the text, you might miss some of the subtle nuances—literary devices, wordplays, etc.—found in the original.

Even the best literal translation can’t follow the original form all the time. And even the best meaning-based translation can’t capture every detail of meaning found in the original.

In 1978, the NIV pioneered a different approach: balancing transparency to the original with clarity of meaning. Our view is that if the first people to receive the Bible could understand God’s Word the way it was written, you should be able to as well.

https://www.thenivbible.com/blog/floodwaters-ask-god-for-olive-leaf/


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Monday, January 18, 2021

GET LOST IN GOD’S LOVE - How To Get Lost In God’s Love And Save Your Marriage - This world’s paradigm of love can often put a lot of emphasis on sex, romance and passion in marriage. God’s Word defines marital love more in terms of friendship and commitment than sex and romance. I’ve long embraced the biblical story of the woman at the well (John 4). She tried man after man but never felt that her thirst for love had been quenched. She was desperate and love-sick. It doesn’t matter how deep the problem; the solution is still God’s love. And He has buckets and buckets of love to fix your marriage. And to fix your heart. - Every person on earth has a deep desire to be loved. And as wonderful as love in marriage is, it will never be a fulfilling love unless we first saturate ourselves in the unfailing love of God. As wonderful as love in marriage is, it will never be a fulfilling love unless we first saturate ourselves in the unfailing love of God. Before you accuse me of sounding cliché, I’ve learned this on the hot pavement of life, and I’d like to offer four practical tips that have helped me to live it out. Admit that what you need more than anything else in this world is to be well loved. Because love is a basic need of humanity, every person has a deep desire to be loved. During a difficult season of feeling unloved in my marriage, God led me to Proverbs 19:22 (NIV): “What a person desires is unfailing love; better to be poor than a liar.” God alone holds the answer to our deep craving for love.

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Get Lost In God’s Love

How To Get Lost In God’s Love And Save Your Marriage

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This world’s paradigm of love can often put a lot of emphasis on sex, romance and passion in marriage. God’s Word defines marital love more in terms of friendship and commitment than sex and romance. 

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I’ve long embraced the biblical story of the woman at the well (John 4). She tried man after man but never felt that her thirst for love had been quenched. She was desperate and love-sick. It doesn’t matter how deep the problem; the solution is still God’s love. And He has buckets and buckets of love to fix your marriage. And to fix your heart.

BY DANNAH GRESH

 

 

Every person on earth has a deep desire to be loved.

And as wonderful as love in marriage is, it will never be a fulfilling love unless we first saturate ourselves in the unfailing love of God.

“Lord, fix my husband. Fix us!”

As quickly as the prayer was on my lips, I felt God ask, Do you believe I can do what you are asking Me to do?

I did not.

My husband, Bob, and I had reached a place of deep pain.

Busyness. Sinfulness. Selfishness.

I was angry with Bob.

The circumstances don’t really matter. They’re probably a lot like the circumstances in your marriage from time to time.

But convinced I could not love him well until he loved me better, I dug myself into a prayer routine that proved futile.

I was, in fact, looking for love in the wrong place.

As wonderful as love in marriage is, it will never be a fulfilling love unless we first saturate ourselves in the unfailing love of God.

Before you accuse me of sounding cliché, I’ve learned this on the hot pavement of life, and I’d like to offer four practical tips that have helped me to live it out.

Admit that what you need more than anything else in this world is to be well loved.

Because love is a basic need of humanity, every person has a deep desire to be loved.

During a difficult season of feeling unloved in my marriage, God led me to Proverbs 19:22 (NIV):

“What a person desires is unfailing love; better to be poor than a liar.”

The Bible uses the phrase “unfailing love” more than 30 times, and not one of them refers to any source other than God himself.

He alone holds the answer to our deep craving for love.

This means that your husband or wife will never be able to fulfill this need unless you first find satisfaction in God’s love.

Let your spouse off the hook.

The greatest symptom that my need for love was misdirected was that I was praying for God to change my husband — without having the humility to ask God how He wanted to change me.

It is never wrong to pray for God to make your husband or wife more like Him.

However, when your prayers are void of your own need, that might indicate you’re trying to have your needs met through a person’s love rather than through God’s.

When I realized this in my own life, I simply asked God to make me hungry for His love.

It takes a lot of courage to admit that your marriage might not be exactly what you want because you are not exactly what you need to be.

Be brave. Put yourself under God’s care to be changed.

Write a list of things your spouse does to express his or her love for you.

Do this as an act of thanksgiving to God. My counselor assigned this task to me and, although I took it on reluctantly, it had a dramatic impact on my heart.

I am, in fact, a very loved woman.

I have a husband who never fails to ask for forgiveness, prays with me each night at bedtime, willingly enters into counseling when we need it, manages our money well, begs me to sneak away with him from time to time, and tolerates my weaknesses as much as I tolerate his.

It’s easy to lose sight of all this when we’re hurting each other, and it is so important to refocus our thinking to be grateful.

As I did this, it became an act of loving my husband through God’s love in me.

Invest in the friendship of your spouse.

This world’s paradigm of love can often put a lot of emphasis on sex, romance and passion in marriage.

If those things aren’t on full boil, we tend to think our relationship lacks love.

But God’s Word defines marital love more in terms of friendship and commitment than sex and romance.

Take a night to play a board game or enjoy a hike together on a Sunday afternoon.

If you can meet your spouse for lunch, consider canceling an appointment with a personal trainer or even a friend.

I’ve long embracedthe biblical story of the woman at the well (John 4).

She tried man after man but never felt that her thirst for love had been quenched. She was desperate and love-sick.

Then, when Jesus showed up, He offered her the love she really needed.

But she said, “You have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep”

How like us! How like me.

You don’t have to be a woman who has had many husbands to be parched with a thirst for love.

You just have to be a woman who is trying to get something from her husband that only God can give. I know.

I have been there many times, just waiting for God to show up. And when He does, I’m prone to tell him, “But God, I’m in so deep, and you don’t have a bucket!”

It doesn’t matter how deep the problem; the solution is still God’s love.

And He has buckets and buckets of love to fix your marriage.

And to fix your heart.

Dannah Gresh is a best-selling author of numerous books and a popular public speaker who is especially passionate about helping parents build strong relationships with their children and encouraging tweens and teens to pursue sexual purity. Dannah’s recent books include It’s Great to Be a Girl, Raising Body-Confident Daughters and A Girl’s Guide to Understanding Boys. Dannah and her husband, Bob, reside in State College, Pa., and have three grown children. Learn more about Dannah and her work by visiting the website for her organization, Pure Freedom.

https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/how-to-get-lost-in-gods-love-and-save-your-marriage/


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Fill My Cup, Lord


Richard Blanchard

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https://puricarechronicles.blogspot.com/2018/08/fill-my-cup-lord-richard-blanchard.html

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Unfailing Love


Evie Karlsson

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https://puricarechronicles.blogspot.com/2018/08/unfailing-love-evie-karlsson-if-highest.html