Showing posts with label Sadness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sadness. Show all posts

Monday, March 15, 2021

WHEN MUSIC MAKES YOU CRY - What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music? - Many types of music can move people to tears; blubbering in the balcony is iconic in opera. The phenomenon of crying sparked by music is an interesting, but little-studied behavior. Whether music does or does not make you feel like crying reveals something about your fundamental personality, and the particular shade of emotion gripping you as you feel choked up is different for different personality types. Evoking emotion is the main point of music, after all, so perhaps we shouldn’t be too surprised that songs can put a lump in our throats. Music can calm or excite; it can motivate, uniting worshipers in peace and devotion, or driving people into battle with the sound of drum and bugle. Crying is a complex human behavior that can accompany a variety of intense experiences. It can be provoked by grief, as at a funeral, but also by extreme happiness, as at a wedding. But helplessness, gratitude, and other subtle emotions can also provoke tears. What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music? The researchers surveyed 892 adults to determine how many had experienced feeling like crying while hearing music, and what emotion they were feeling at that moment. The first finding is that being moved to tears by music is not unusual; 89.8 percent of the people in the study reported that they had experienced feeling like crying by hearing music.

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When Music Makes You Cry

What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music?

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Evoking emotion is the main point of music, after all, so perhaps we shouldn’t be too surprised that songs can put a lump in our throats. Music can calm or excite; it can motivate, uniting worshipers in peace and devotion, or driving people into battle with the sound of drum and bugle.

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Crying is a complex human behavior that can accompany a variety of intense experiences. It can be provoked by grief, as at a funeral, but also by extreme happiness, as at a wedding. But helplessness, gratitude, and other subtle emotions can also provoke tears. 

R. Douglas Fields Ph.D.

The New Brain

Reviewed by Ekua Hagan

 

Ever find yourself moved to tears by music? Eva Cassidy’s "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" does it for me. How about you?

Many types of music can move people to tears; blubbering in the balcony is iconic in opera. The phenomenon of crying sparked by music is an interesting, but little-studied behavior. 

According to a new study, whether music does or does not make you feel like crying reveals something about your fundamental personality, and the particular shade of emotion gripping you as you feel choked up is different for different personality types. 

Researchers Katherine Cotter and Paul Silvia of the University of North Carolina, and Kirill Fayn of the University of Sydney, collaborated on research to investigate the emotions that people experience when music makes them feel like crying. 

Evoking emotion is the main point of music, after all, so perhaps we shouldn’t be too surprised that songs can put a lump in our throats. 

Music can calm or excite; it can motivate, uniting worshipers in peace and devotion, or driving people into battle with the sound of drum and bugle.

Crying is a complex human behavior that can accompany a variety of intense experiences. It can be provoked by grief, as at a funeral, but also by extreme happiness, as at a wedding.

But helplessness, gratitude, and other subtle emotions can also provoke tears. What emotion do most people feel when they are moved to tears by music?

The researchers surveyed 892 adults to determine how many had experienced feeling like crying while hearing music, and what emotion they were feeling at that moment. 

The first finding is that being moved to tears by music is not unusual; 89.8 percent of the people in the study reported that they had experienced feeling like crying by hearing music.

The participants were asked to rank their emotional feelings accompanying that response across a spectrum of 16 emotions, including euphoria, happiness, awe, anxiousness, sadness, depression, etc.

The researchers found that people who had been moved to tears by music could be clearly separated into two groups: those who felt sadness, and those who felt awe.

The majority (63 percent) reported feeling sad when music made them cry, and 36.7 percent reported feeling awe.

Is there something about the personalities of people in these two different groups that could explain why these two very different emotional reactions — sadness and awe — provoked tears while listening to music? 

The participants in the study had been given a psychological test to classify them according to five personality attributes — neuroticismextraversionopenness to experienceagreeableness, and conscientiousness

When the researchers sorted the data, they found that people who ranked high on the neuroticism scale experienced sadness when they had been moved to tears by music, and people who scored high in the openness to experience scale felt like crying because the music provoked a profound sense of awe. 

In Eva Cassidy’s performance, the emotion evoked is definitely awe. 

I feel awed by experiencing the extraordinary talent of one person to deliver such a perfect and moving performance — built from nothing other than her beautiful voice and skillful is a live performance, and the tension of sustaining perfection alone in the spotlight magnifies the stakes. 

The song has become a thread-worn children’s jingle from a lifetime of overuse, but here it is transformed and soaring. 

So I guess my reaction puts me among the minority who cry at music because it invokes awe, compared to the two-thirds of people who cry because a song is sad. 

If the correlation with personality traits is correct, I should not rank particularly high on the neuroticism scale (thankfully). But I’m not so sure. 

This thought-provoking study is a good start, but it has some limitations. The experimental group was comprised of college students, which may not adequately reflect the population as a whole. 

Also, 69.6 percent of the participants were female, and the possible effect of gender was not analyzed. 

Another consideration is that in relying upon each person’s recollection of a time in the past when they had felt like crying while listening to music, the study depends on self-reporting to be accurate. 

But in my opinion, there is another complication at work. 

Human emotions are complex. They don’t always fit like pegs into the slots that researchers provide in their experimental designs. 

I remember being moved to tears while hearing Pete Seeger sing "We Shall Overcome," inspiring everyone in the crowd to join in a united chorus of solidarity and determination.

The predominant feeling I had at the time was sadness. 

I was thinking of all the people who had sung that song in the streets of this country over the years in peaceful struggles to overcome racial and social injustice; black-and-white images of the Governor of Alabama blocking the doorway of the university, police dogs, fire hoses blasting protesters off their feet, neighborhoods burning in summer riots, the horrors of a war in Southeast Asia that ripped our country apart and challenged every young man of draft age to confront their own morality and mortality, to distinguish duty from deceit, and decide, betting their life, about a war that was taking the lives of thousands and maiming thousands more — and what for? 

But it was not only sadness that I felt as I listened to Seeger sing. It is possible to experience both sadness and awe simultaneously. 

It is natural to feel powerless and overwhelmed by forces of national and international power. What can one person possibly do? All that Seeger had was a banjo. 

I felt a bittersweet mix of sadness and awe in seeing one man with the courage to stand up against injustice. 

Motivated to try to make the world a better, more peaceful place, to inspire us to be better human beings, and do it with the only thing he had — songs. 

Music is powerful stuff. As a biologist, I see tooth and nail everywhere in nature, because unfortunately, violence is sometimes necessary for survival. 

But amidst current events — such as the hurling of brutal threats to obliterate millions of people with thermonuclear weapons — perhaps what the world needs now is a few less bombs and a few more banjos.

R. Douglas Fields, Ph.D., teaches at the University of Maryland, College Park and is the author of the book Electric Brain.

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-brain/201709/when-music-makes-you-cry


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Friday, February 26, 2021

THE SACRED ACHE: NO TEAR FORGOTTEN - Sometimes we feel alone in our heartache and wonder if God hears us or even cares - we may imagine God has abandoned us, forgotten us, dismissed us, or simply ignored us. God is listening and planning to bring beauty and restoration to our situation. So when you cry out to the Lord, asking Him your own version of “How long?” recognize that you’re in good company. But don’t allow your ache to remain merely an ache. Allow that truth to seep into your troubled mind so that your ache might begin its transformation into something sacred. Why does the Lord record each heartache, each grief, each sadness in some divine journal inscribed with heavenly ink? It’s because He has plans for those things. It’s because He wastes nothing. He intends to fill our sorrows and tears with His expansive love. When we remember this — when we recall that God does in fact notice our pain, that He collects each tear in a bottle so that one day He might replace each teardrop with an ocean of divine love — our souls stop shrinking and begin to expand. The small world of our pain gives way to something boundless… beyond measure… beyond our reckoning. God’s incomprehensible love. This is the biblical truth. This is the Christian’s hope. And this is the sacred ache. “My soul is in anguish. How long, O Lord, how long?” “How long, O Lord, must I call for help, but You do not listen?”

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The Sacred Ache: No Tear Forgotten

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Sometimes we feel alone in our heartache and wonder if God hears us or even cares - we may imagine God has abandoned us, forgotten us, dismissed us, or imply ignored us. 

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God is listening and planning to bring beauty and restoration to our situation. So when you cry out to the Lord, asking Him your own version of “How long?” recognize that you’re in good company. 


But don’t allow your ache to remain merely an ache. Allow that truth to seep into your troubled mind so that your ache might begin its transformation into something sacred. Why does the Lord record each heartache, each grief, each sadness in some divine journal inscribed with heavenly ink? It’s because He has plans for those things. It’s because He wastes nothing. He intends to fill our sorrows and tears with His expansive love. 

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When we remember this — when we recall that God does in fact notice our pain, that He collects each tear in a bottle so that one day He might replace each teardrop with an ocean of divine love — our souls stop shrinking and begin to expand. The small world of our pain gives way to something boundless… beyond measure… beyond our reckoning. God’s incomprehensible love. This is the biblical truth. This is the Christian’s hope. And this is the sacred ache.

Sheila Walsh


 

In the midst of our pain and grief — and especially at the front end — we may imagine God has abandoned us, forgotten us, dismissed us, or simply ignored us.

We’re not the first occupants of this broken planet to feel this way, nor will we be the last.

Even a quick stroll through the Psalms reveals how often human thoughts wander down this shadowy pathway:

o  My soul is in anguish. How long, O Lord, how long?” (Psalm 6:3).

o    “How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever? How long will You hide Your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have sorrow in my heart? How long will my enemy triumph over me?” (Psalm 13:1–2).

o    “How long, O Lord? Will You hide yourself forever? How long will Your wrath burn like fire? Remember how fleeting is my life. For what futility You have created all men!” (Psalm 89:46–47).

o    “Relent, O Lord! How long will it be? Have compassion on Your servants. Satisfy us in the morning with Your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. Make us glad for as many days as You have afflicted us, for as many years as we have seen trouble” (Psalm 90:13–15).

The prophet Habakkuk got in the act, too, crying out,

“How long, O Lord, must I call for help, but You do not listen?” – Habakkuk 1:2

That’s how we feel, and God seems to have no problem with our expressing it.

So when you cry out to the Lord, asking Him your own version of “How long?” recognize that you’re in good company.

But please don’t leave it there. Don’t allow your ache to remain merely an ache.

Remember the truth, and allow that truth to seep into your troubled mind so that your ache might begin its transformation into something sacred.

Remember what David whispered to God, after yet another near-death escape?

“You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in Your bottle. You have recorded each one in Your book.” – Psalm 56:8

Why would He do that?

Why would God keep track of all our sorrows?

Why would He collect all our tears in a bottle?

Why does the Lord record each heartache, each grief, each sadness in some divine journal inscribed with heavenly ink?

It’s because He has plans for those things.

It’s because He wastes nothing.

He intends to fill our sorrows and tears with His expansive love.

This was the glorious expectation of both the prophets and the apostles when each said of God:

“He will swallow up death forever; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from all faces.” – Isaiah 25:8

“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” – Revelation 21:4

When we remember this — when we recall that God does in fact notice our pain, that He collects each tear in a bottle so that one day He might replace each teardrop with an ocean of divine love — our souls stop shrinking and begin to expand. The small world of our pain gives way to something boundless… beyond measure… beyond our reckoning.

God’s incomprehensible love.

This is the biblical truth. This is the Christian’s hope. And this is the sacred ache.

Your Turn

Sometimes we feel alone in our heartache and wonder if God hears us or even cares.

While we are doubting His goodness, God is listening and planning to bring beauty and restoration to our situation.

Join the conversation on our blog! We’d love to hear from you! ~ Devotionals Daily

Excerpted with permission from God Loves Broken People by Sheila Walsh, copyright Thomas Nelson.

Sheila Walsh is a powerful Bible teacher and best-selling author from Scotland with over 4 million books sold. A featured speaker with Women of Faith® conferences, she has reached more than 3.5 million women by combining honesty, vulnerability, and humor with God's Word. Currently completing her Masters in Theology, Sheila lives in Frisco, Texas with her husband, Barry, her son, Christian, and her two little dogs, Belle and Tink.

https://www.faithgateway.com/sacred-ache-no-tear-forgotten/#.YAHDxl4zbZ4


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